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[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 78 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

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[–] fadingembers@lemmy.blahaj.zone 93 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)
[–] antidote101@lemmy.world 68 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I believe there's somewhat of an internal rift between The Guardian UK and The Guardian US with the US publication being more progressive on Trans issues.

...of course people in the US still shouldn't talk to Journalists, as plenty of right-wing organisations pretend to be journalists in order to produce "gotcha" content and misinformation.

[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 12 points 2 years ago (2 children)

This is new to me. I always viewed journos as standing on the side of truth and democracy.

[–] fadingembers@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 14 points 2 years ago

I mean NYT is conservative trash AFAIK, but I thought the Guardian knew better.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] grrgyle@slrpnk.net 3 points 2 years ago

Well yeah, the truth tends to be biased

[–] Lexam@lemmy.ca 77 points 2 years ago

Just start bulldozing them and only talk about DIY home projects. "OMG you should see our new deck. Steve wants to stain it but I really like the bare look."

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 67 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Instructions unclear, underage teens have been secretly using Ivermectin and Hydroxychloroquine for their trans health care needs 👀

[–] Noodle07@lemmy.world 43 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (1 children)

confused republican noises

[–] DancingBear@midwest.social 1 points 2 years ago

I wish we had cool cspan like British parliament hmph hymph boooooo!

[–] shadowSprite@lemmy.world 63 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I'm also joining the group coming here from All, I've never heard of this, but just wanted to chime in and say I'm sorry some of you have to DYI your own healthcare because the system is failing you, please be safe and healthy.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 42 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Unfortunately it’s an ancient tradition. Transitioning is like abortion in that people will find a way if desperate enough even if that way is life threatening.

I think maybe we need to acknowledge this more.

[–] Katrisia@lemm.ee 7 points 2 years ago

Exactly. This is the only argument needed to support treatments and drugs. If a person wants to do it (a choice made with a sufficiently healthy mind), we should provide safety. Euthanasia, abortion, hormones, etc. We shouldn't care about further views.

[–] stembolts@programming.dev 59 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm not trans, just a middle aged dude, but it gives me a bit of hope that the trans community has these sorts of options when it feels like half the world wants to deny you your preferred existence. Shitty that you have to, but glad that you can.

Fuck the bigots. Fuck the church. Fuck bad-faith politicians. Fuck the lies of conservatives. And fuck the people who can't or won't see the media doing the same thing to trans folk they did to gays mere decades ago.

Idiots, cruel intolerant, controlling idiots, the lot of them.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 2 years ago (3 children)

No, we should all waste their time giving testimony that is so ridiculous, but still believable.

[–] xor@infosec.pub 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

yeah... i heard that people are using jenkem as a diy puberty blocker...

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Jenkem is made up of human feces and urine that has undergone fermentation.

Wait, wtf??

[–] xor@infosec.pub 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

(jenkem was a hoax drug that fooled a lot of the media into running stories about it)

[–] princessnorah@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago

that’s fucking amazing, good form! lol

[–] turbowafflz@lemmy.world 9 points 2 years ago

'All the "alpha male" types release enough testosterone that transmasc people can actually just condense it out of the air.' And then start explaining in great detail your testosterone condensing setup

"yeah no i've been DIYing water for the last 30 years of my life, it really helps me stay healthy and focused"

[–] arymandias@feddit.de 31 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I remember when the Guardian was the good newspaper that proudly published the Wikileaks documents, sad to see them turn into the Terf Stasi.

isnt the guardian owned by jeff bezos? Or is that the washington one, or both, i can never remember because i never seem to give a shit about these publications.

[–] nick@midwest.social 31 points 2 years ago (1 children)

“Don’t talk to journalists” in general is a good rule of thumb these days

[–] agegamon@beehaw.org 22 points 2 years ago

I mean it's nuanced yeah?

Am I gonna talk to a journalist about a sensitive thing like DIY that could trigger brainwashed regressive people? Fuck no.

Am I gonna blast on all channels that we are in a climate crisis and inequality crisis and housing crisis and? Yes, yes I think I will.

And that's my decision for me. Some people are understandably never comfortable talking. Let alone to journalists lol!

[–] Sam_Bass@lemmy.world 29 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Given the "entertainment" nature of journalism, its best not to talk to them about anything else they will try to spin it for ratings

[–] spez_@lemmy.world 10 points 2 years ago

Journalists are terrorists

[–] BabyVi@lemmy.world 20 points 2 years ago (1 children)

DIY saved my life, but the Guardian can fuck right off back to terf island.

[–] werefreeatlast@lemmy.world 16 points 2 years ago (1 children)

HRT or Hey as autocorrect would like really hard to put it, is "Hormonal Replacement Therapy". I'm not trans and I'm sure others would be wondering what it means. I love that someone mentioned Linux.

It's so depressing that we are loosing our freedoms to change to the gender we are inside alone with our freedoms of expression and for women, their reproductive rights. I can't believe the level of intrusive legislation happening. I just don't understand the end goal. I assume that the people making these stupid laws also live here and some must be queer like the rest of us in some way. So why do they insist in making the world harder to live in for the people they don't understand? 😞

Anyway, just some thoughts before going to sleep. I also do hope putin chokes on a pretzel while dropping without a parachute....no a actually with a parachute directly into the 🌞 sun. Would be the best morning 🌅🌄 ever if it happened.

[–] UpperBroccoli@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 2 years ago (1 children)

So why do they insist in making the world harder to live in for the people they don’t understand? 😞

It is quite simple. It is part of a culture war that the right wages using resources provided by the rich. The one and only purpose is to take attention away from the extreme inequalities that exist in our capitalist societies. What they fear most is class war, so they try everything to generate other conflicts for the populace to engage in. It is pretty much the same with other topics, like abortion. Raising these conflicts costs them absolutely nothing, and even if they are part of a group that is affected, the rules do not apply to them anyway, only to us normos.

What frightens me is that, understanding this, some on the left (or those that claim to be left) think that the focus should be solely on class war, to the point of completely ignoring human rights problems. In Germany, that'd be Sarah Wagenknecht and her stupid new party, who thinks people fighting for Trans rights are "lifestyle leftists". Needless to say, I could not disagree more.

[–] femboycuddles@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

Wait what Wagenknecht actually said that? I knew she was a terf and her stupid party voted against the new trans rights bill but I had never heard this before.

[–] KillingTimeItself@lemmy.dbzer0.com 13 points 2 years ago (1 children)

i was a little confused, until i realized that it was home grown HRT (not literally i know, i just like phrasing things weirdly.)

took me a second. We certainly live in a time to be alive.

[–] Carbonizer@lemmy.world 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)

What, you're saying you don't grow your own estrogen in a little plot of land in the back yard? You're missing out!

no, i didn't get the memo, i don't think.

Guess i should probably have a look into it.

[–] match@pawb.social 11 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] LadyAutumn@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 2 years ago

They've posted articles against banning transgender conversion therapy, their chief lead writer is an outspoken TERF, they've posted articles for years now calling trans women threats to cisgender lesbians, and many more examples than that.

The article you linked does indeed seem to be a relatively trans supportive article. The guardian is internally divided on issues of transgender rights and acceptance, and occasionally trans positive articles are published there. The organization is not trustworthy, however, and has been actively hostile to trans rights, unfortunately.

[–] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 2 years ago

us guardian tends to be slightly better but not by much. uk guardian is full blown fascist.

[–] cro_magnon_gilf@sopuli.xyz 8 points 2 years ago (1 children)
[–] survivalmachine@beehaw.org 11 points 2 years ago

Nice try, Guardian journo! 🤣

(DIY is Do-It-Yourself. HRT is Hormone Replacement Therapy. DIY HRT is doing HRT on your own, without professional assistance, in situations where HRT may be otherwise difficult or illegal to obtain because of age, family, or local politics)

[–] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 years ago

generally don't talk to the guardian about anything unless you need extra kindling for a fire

[–] Zehzin@lemmy.world 6 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Yes Mr Journalist I get all my DIYs from Home Depot

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Okay but why? Why shall we not talk to the guardian people?

[–] survivalmachine@beehaw.org 23 points 2 years ago

DIY HRT is a trans-beneficial concept. The Guardian tends to have an anti-trans agenda. It is assumed that they would not be investigating to paint DIY HRT in a positive light, but to investigate in bad faith so they may push it to the forefront of national/worldwide conversation as in "look at the new evil the trans mafia are pushing on our children!"

[–] spez_@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Yep I don't like em