Blain wants to give some of that newfound confidence to his fellow trans and queer Texans. One day, he hopes to start the kind of restaurant that fosters a safe work environment for trans people. And while he originally wanted to leave the state for Colorado last year, Blain now says he wants to stay in Waco and help build a stronger community that's hard to find outside of Texas' big cities—one that also includes barbecue.
"The worst thing that could happen to Texas is a mass exodus of good people, of queer people," Blain said. "I'm not leaving. I'm digging in my heels, and I'm gonna start a business here. I want to create a space here for us."
I have such a deep admiration for people who understand intimately that the place they live is hostile to them, but choose to stay. I don't blame anyone for leaving and encourage it sometimes because it's important lgbt+ people survive and thrive in this world. But he's courageous, and I hope the place he lives rises to meet him.