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[–] pixeltree@lemmy.blahaj.zone 76 points 3 months ago (1 children)

No I'm transitioning into my mom

Real talk though that was something I had to work through. Accepting that to the majority of people I'm going to look strange/odd/offputting and realizing that that's really not what's important. As long as I like what I look like, it doesn't matter what others think.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 59 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

Also the struggle of realizing you look like your own mother

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 24 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Better than looking like my dad but with hair πŸ™ƒ

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

exactly

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

(Plus i consider my mom to be pretty, and to have aged well. I'm very okay with that as a possibility)

[–] tracelr402@piefed.blahaj.zone 22 points 3 months ago

I actually had a bit more of a jolt in catching a glimpse of my long passed grandmother. But most people probably need a few more years on them to get that one

[–] blaze@programming.dev 44 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Um actually estrogen makes us way prettier lol.

I agree with pixeltree though, I'm definitely looking more like my mom πŸ˜†

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 3 months ago

It's not that looking like your mom is inherently bad, it just feels freaky when you're not used to it.

[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 22 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I had that thought in my head for a long time, which postponed my transition at least another year or two.

Turns out I was completely wrong. Not only do I like myself in the mirror now waaay more than before I even have people that... desire me?? That is such a weird and novel feeling.

[–] Melissa@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 3 months ago

It is! That was SO unexpected to me. I thought I was choosing to be alone :( Nope, more love in my life than there has ever been!

[–] grue@lemmy.world 18 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I feel like that's a bad-faith argument because the same assholes want y'all to not have access to puberty blockers etc. and (if I understand correctly) not having those masculine facial features develop in the first place is the best way to avoid that outcome.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Insulting attractiveness is just a tried and true way of discounting and undermining women they don't like. Feminists are just fat catlady blue haired sjws or whatever, while conventionally attractive women in media are seen as a victory over "woke" even if the media itself is explicitly goes against their fascist ideology.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 3 months ago

i miss when "blue hairs" referred to little old ladies

[–] apotheotic@beehaw.org 14 points 3 months ago

I'm transitioning into your mommy, actually