birdwing

joined 3 months ago
[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago

Mmm yess,,, me want...,,

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago

Eggs are usually stored cool. They need it so they are all the hotter when they break.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

The best indicators are to look at your parents and siblings, then perhaps auncles and niblings/cousins. Primarily the femme ones.

Then take a cup size less (especially if you started after the first puberty). Following that logic I'd be looking at getting a D... so yay?

You could also factor in the masculine members by doubling/tripling what they would have, but that's more complicated. Best to just stick to your closest fem relatives for comparison.

YMMY, though. It's highly dependent and the best way is to have a bit extra fat when you start on E. Assuming you start with a healthy weight: cycle each week: eat more, then burn it when you eat a bit less and sport more. Fat redistribution will then go faster. Helps to squat too (for the hips, belly and legs).

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Or remove dick, no other changes. Just have a straight up cloaca.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

102 ZZZ Is actually the biggest naturally attested.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Six months? Damn, you're speedrunning shit. I got the same, 7 months in.

Rn 8 months. Maybe it's because of the band width being wider, so the fat is more spread out. I got 80C in my case, so it's just about visible.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Aah, like that. Yes, I think I have that too, it's very subtle in my case though. Might be because I already have pretty good colour perception. Could also be because of depression lessening as HRT takes hold.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

Hmm, def doesn't not hurt. I got 8 sessions done and it hurts like a mofo each time.

That said, each succeeding session on the same areas is less painful than the former.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (2 children)

I've tried it only once or twice and stopped immediately, went to laser instead. Still hurts like a mofo but it's more effective.

One tip for afterward: put aftersun or any cream that helps your skin hydrate etc., in the fridge before you epilate, then apply after epilating/lasering.

When lasering, getting a cold compress on the skin immediately after each individual laser helped a ton.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Damn, jealous. I knew pellets can last long, but 12 months‽ Gimme gimme, that sounds awesome and soooo liberating!

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I had that as well, and a tiny bit of a feel like a hand clasped around your arm (that's where I do the dose).

Switching up arms a few times in the first week or two stopped that. Now I usually just do it on the same arm and feel none of that clasp.

[–] birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

Interesting. I take spray and am rather chaotic - I sometimes vary with taking the dose up to as much as 6 hours. Usually in the evening.

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Question re: speed of HRT (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by birdwing@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

So far HRT is going very well, I'm generally much happier.

tho I'm wondering a few things for my femmaxxing :3

  • How do I train 'curves'? What's the best routine? I know getting weight in the first few months may help, but what about exercise? Do these help with getting more 'meat' on my butt, hips, and breasts? If so, what kind of exercises should I do?
  • What kind of food to eat would help best?
  • Is a growth from 75B to 80C in 7 months slow or quick?
  • Any things I could do to appear more fem? I already wear high-waisted jeans, and I wear a bra. I prefer a generally 'neutral' ish fashion (neither very skirty nor motorjacketty), kinda tomboyish, though I'm fine with other options also.
  • I take a more femme walk (the hrt unironically helps me with that) nowadays as well. Behaviour ideas, maybe?
  • fill in whatever tips, i'm happy to answer questions!

and also, shork obligatory haj

 

See title. How do I even cope with never being able to get pregnant? I mourn the fact that I never even once had the opportunity to get pregnant, to feel life in me developing, and all that. Of all things, this gives me the greatest dysphoria. I want to have wider hips and larger boobs, and even though I'm 28 (so hip widening likely won't happen... maybe surgery?) and I'm 7 months on HRT, I feel like it's not satisfactory yet. It has made me so much happier and I feel much more liberated having HRT, but even before I knew trans was a thing, even early on, I still had the desire to eventually be able to get pregnant.

I don't care that it's a lot of morning sickness, feeling miserable and extremely tired, heavy, and all that - I experienced long illness before. But having someone at the end of it, feeling the baby kick... I heavily miss that I cannot experience that. I'm happy for those who can, but I wish I could, and I want to actively fight for it. Even if I die or suffer horribly, then at least I will have contributed to further understanding so that people may one time experience it.

To that child whom I will likely not have the luck of carrying -- may life find you when it calls you. I love you with all my heart and I wish I were able to see you. If I ever do succeed in that, then I swear solemnly to thank the world for its bounty and gifts; and regardless I will support all who struggle through life.

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