Ngl she is so real for these words.
I never felt like I could relate to girls very well,”
“I love them so much. I love them as people. I’m attracted to them as people. I’m attracted to them for real.”
Eilish continued: “I have deep connections with women in my life, the friends in my life, the family in my life.
“I’m physically attracted to them. But I’m also so intimidated by them and their beauty and their presence.”
One more win for gay bottoms. I needed this today.
Fuck yes for booby progress
Your safety comes first. That feeling of euphoria is what you deserve for your bravery and its worth living your life as your true self to feel these moments of euphoria. I think you really are trans, yeah. Not every trans peraon has super obvious trans moments in their childhood, and memory is also easily faulty. I think you may want to get in touch with the trans lifeline or the travor project. You wanna be talking to people who can help you keep this negativity at bay or open up the transition avenues to you.
Getting ny fashion tips from weird al, now, huh? Is this what rock bottom feels like?
This ia adorable. I'm really glad for your minimal effort here.
I'm 5'11" feet tall, USA, my personal style is very practical and not very feminine, and I shop almost exclusively online. It's more expensive, but it works for me for many reasons. I'm too busy to go shopping. But when I have, there's at least one supportive employee eager to help me.
I measure myself and compare those measurements to the Size Guide. Sometimes the measurements are still off, but I havent had trouble.
Sometimes I buy specifically from brands advertising Tall and Plus Size. In some garments, a Tall XL has been the perfect fit for me. For example, Overalls.
My basic outfit consists of High Waisted Jeans and a Scoop Neck T-shirt that is tucked into them. Lightly colored jeans, dark T-shirt.
I am never wearing clothing that is uncomfortable for me. I depend on a woven nylon belt to keep my jeans up, they are a bit loose.
I've watched a few videos about how to dress for trans fems. Nano Nano made one thats just 6 minutes, it was enough for me to get started.
As always, your mileage may vary.
I'm an oldy but goldy, I'd be shocked if there are very young Lemmy users, it took me a real ideological bent to commit time here.
Sky are you in contact with your doctor and/or a therapist? Even your nutritionist (at your GP).
There's value to having weight in transition but there's also some troubleshooting that is better left to a medical professional. Fat redistribution happens when fat is gained and lost. Our bodies aren't automatic.
Holy shit someone tried to guess your age? ☠️ never guess a woman's age dummy.
Sorry you're having a rough time of it. Don't let your ability to remain confident about passing (euphoria vs dysphoria) put your transition back on the shelf. I'm just gonna keep reminding you these posts are dysphoria. This is mental unwellness speaking louder than your logical mindful brain can.
I'm going to self-host your gender.
Fun fact reading wikipedia as a young teen there was/is some sort of statement that sets young eggs up to think they must think about changing gender "the normal amount." Then I said it out loud and had my first egg moment, people all in unison saying "the normal amount is zero" 😂
I have been trying and failing to fill this hole in my heart since I realized I'm female. Usually fill it with cheap clothes. Like... I wanna force the process to be faster. But it just isn't.
She's absolutely stunning. Beautiful cat.