AFKBRBChocolate

I love him

I read the sidebar, and it appears comments from everyone are welcomed here as long as they're supportive, so I hope you don't mind a cis guy chiming in.

What I've said to friends and family of various persuasions is that there's someone for everyone, but your preferences and attributes can greatly change the viable pool for you. If I understand your post correctly, what you'd prefer is a feminine or androgenous guy who wants to top. That's a somewhat small pool. But on top of that, you say you're too busy to care about anyone, so you're asking for someone who wants a relationship with you, but not to expect much from you in return. I'm sure there are people who would be fine with that combination, but it's a really small pool.

Maybe you're in a phase where you should focus on yourself and whatever it is keeping you busy, and just go on occasional casual dates if/when someone catches your eye. When you're in a place to care for another person, maybe you'll have worked out what type rings all the bells.

It's hard to tug back when you're kissing the top of her nose.

You know, I've seen houndstooth, but it's always been really small. This is the first time I saw it large like this.

Not sure what ginham is

Apparently it's a lot of things. Maybe why such a popular pattern.

That's awsome

Good info for the five cat owners who don't already know this.

Oh, sure, I understand, but yarn is a different story. They don't even have to scratch it to snag it - just takes a claw sticking out a bit, or them making biscuits on it.

All of these pics must have been taken in the first ten seconds because there's not a single snag.

Oh, that's a little better. I live in California, where small earthquakes aren't uncommon, so not something that looks okay to me, but better than just propped up on the edge.

Made for it in what way? I'm not seeing a slot for it to sit in or anything to hold it in place. Regardless of whether it's the intended place or not, a flat panel TV just resting on its edge with nothing holding it in place is asking for trouble.