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yeah, maybe there is virtue to not waiting (lemmy.blahaj.zone)
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[–] i078@europe.pub 32 points 5 days ago (4 children)

I’m not part of this community, and the trans aspect isn’t my focus. What matters is the principle: time is limited, so don’t wait for a “better time.” Improve what you can, speak up when needed, and tackle your issues—whether it’s relationships, career, or personal growth.

Test the waters and plan your steps, but keep moving forward. Don’t fixate on the end goal as your only source of happiness. Enjoy the journey, adapt as things change, and address what feels wrong or missing. Progress is about both the destination and the ride.

[–] thurstylark@lemmy.today 21 points 5 days ago

Whether or not you meant to, you addressed the trans of it pretty well, actually.

The best time to plant a tree was 30 years ago, the second best time is now.

[–] showmeyourkizinti@startrek.website 5 points 5 days ago

Very good advice for everyone. Sometimes you’ve just got to woman up and give it a go.

[–] Soupbreaker@lemmy.world 2 points 4 days ago

Thanks, this comic really resonated with me, but being a straight cis-gendered guy, I hesitated to make a top-level comment.

[–] Inkstainthebat@pawb.social 2 points 5 days ago

Saving this comment- actually heck it, I need this printed and stapled above my bed

[–] AiricaFyresong@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 5 days ago

Could be worse. You could have softlocked your game with marriage and kids. 😬

[–] edg@lemmy.world 13 points 5 days ago

Makes me want to cry

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I think the only thing really holding me back right now is I want to date lesbians, and not being very femme presenting yet makes me afraid I will have a really hard time, which I really don't need for my mental health. I'm also kind of low key afraid of encountering a terf or more subtly bigoted lesbians.

[–] eestileib@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 days ago

T4T is magic. Just saying.

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

If I die... I won't tell anyone if you don't... :3

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 days ago (1 children)

but have you considered: gay?

[–] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 4 points 5 days ago

Yay for gay! ☺️

[–] Triasha@lemmy.world 6 points 5 days ago

2 years on hormones and I started dating my now wife. It's possible.

[–] Epicmonkie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 5 days ago

lol same :3