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Its hard to believe I started this community over 2 years ago now. I really love that its been able to provide a protected space for transfeminine and questioning people to experience, share, celebrate and commiserate.

I just couldn't be more happy that I've been able to help provide that to other trans and gender variant people out there. I lost my mom 3 years ago, not too long before I started this community. Christmas is a tough time of year for me, because of that and the complexities of being queer and what that means for family and friends.

I'm glad that people think to come here to vent about what theyre going through right now and support each other through it. That is exactly the kind of environment I wanted when I started this space. If the blahaj.zone transfem space has helped you in any way over the years then I think it has served its purpose well.

As always a huge thank you to Ada and Kaity for hosting, moderating and administrating the blahaj.zone lemmy instance. Theres no way something like this community would've been possible without all the work they've done.

I wish everyone a lovely holiday season and look forward to all the conversations we will have in the new year ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’•

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[โ€“] Valmond@lemmy.world 8 points 2 months ago

๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’• happy everything ๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’•!

[โ€“] Berengaria_of_Navarre@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I'm doing well. I made Christmas dinner for the family. My partner from the deep south said my cornbread dressing was indistinguishable from her grandma's. Go me!

Acceptable wintervus everyone!