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[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I totally get respecting specific pronouns, no confusion there.

I don't see how the scenario presented in OP is different from wanting to be referred to in the third person.

[–] PyroNeurosis@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Ah! Effectively none.

Which does bring up an unusual case: how should drag be referred to as part of a group? They and drag? Or would just they suffice?

[–] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

They. It's the same as if you refer to a group of people with a man in it. The "he" is discarded. Drag doesn't use plural independent pronouns.

[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Okay but why not use the already gender-free pronouns I and you? That's got nothing to do with being trans, does it?

[–] dragonfucker@lemmy.nz 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] jerkface@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 year ago

Too much Elmo growing up. I knew that fucker would ruin Sesame Street.

[–] zagaberoo@beehaw.org 1 points 1 year ago

Some degree of identity erasure is inherent with mass pronouns; interesting question!