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I added another step: time to learn sewing.
Turns out i'm quite good at it, and now i design my own clothes and i sell them :3
Any resources you found helpful for moving from basics of stitches to actually making a piece of clothing? I can hand-sew and I have used a sewing machine doing very basic stitches to make handkerchiefs. Was interested in learning to make & modify my clothes, but I feel a bit stuck and not sure where to start. (For example, a common beginner knitting project is making a scarf, then moving on to a cap, etc.)
i’d say a pretty common starter project would be a circle skirt. It’s basically a circle (or half circle, for less drape, but who want less spin, right?). Inner diameter matches your waist, and length is what you want. You can cut 2 half-circles (don’t forget seam allowance! And add like 4cm seam allowance at the bottom), and a waistband of 6cm * your waist (+ seam allowance also). You’ll need an invisible zip (and know how to sew it), and you can find instructions basically everywhere, like on Freesewing (you can ignore some things, like everything related to lining, here)
Umm akshually the pattern for a circle skirt is an annulus (I only know this because I'm collaborating with chatgpt to geometrically describe parametric patterns for modeling my clothes in CAD before I make them)
ok nerd :3
(there’s a free CAD tool for pattern drafting, it’s called Valentina)
Yep I'm using Seamly2D (formerly Valentina) for my 2D stuff, but 3D is also of concern and I'm using Onshape for that (although maybe Fusion 360 might work better I'm not really sure). Blender seems unsuited for my task.