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[–] cobra89@beehaw.org 14 points 2 years ago (5 children)

It's a rule in English that "and I" is only used when it's the subject not the object of a sentence. (Subject is the thing doing the action, and the object is the thing being acted upon)

The proper way to say this would be "she's coming over me and my girlfriend's movie night" because "she" is the subject in this sentence since she is the one "coming over".

Hope that makes sense.

[–] WeLoveCastingSpellz@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 2 years ago (2 children)
[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 18 points 2 years ago (1 children)

fake nerd, real nerds recognize that linguistic prescriptivism is poopoo and you can use language however you want, optionally in such a way that people understand what you're saying.

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