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- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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Gloves. No one wants to hear my opinions on gloves, yet every day I hear questions and complaints to which the answer is "gloves", and it's been a while since I publicly shilled for Big Glove, so here we go.
How do I stop cutting myself? Gloves.
How do I stop chipping my nails? Gloves.
Omg Hazel your hands are so soft how do y– Gloves.
Every time I cut or graze myself, chip a nail or drop a glass, I kick myself because this never would have happened if I'd been wearing my gloves.
My everyday glove of choice lately has been these extra thick grippy nitrile ones. Not all nitrile gloves are made equal, and my long nails poke straight through a lot of them the moment I put them on, so I specifically look for the ones with that grip pattern, often referred to as "diamond grip". Not only do those ones hold up, but I can continue using a single pair around the house for a week.
You can moisturise all you like, but that moisture won't last long in an ungloved hand. In gloves, you can use the harshest chemicals you like to wash them. Dish soap, bleach, isopropanol, whatever gets the grease off. Your mint condition hands will remain soft, supple and blemish free. You can impress your scaly handed friends with them later!
For something like your go-kart example, I'd be wearing my Invisigrips. These are my go–to for anything involving heavy lifting, or when there's a risk of tearing or melting the nitrile gloves.
I don't like disposable plastics