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For most of my life I was a gender abolitionist. I just didn't care, really, about my masculinity. I'd still be down for GA except I recognize that trans folk get so much out of being their true gender. It makes them really happy, so there's obviously something there.
I'd identify purely as enby (undefined) except I've become repulsed at how maleness is represented in society. With examples of masculinity like Donald J. Trump, Matt Walsh, Ben Shapiro and Joe Rogan, I've given up on maleness, and have proverbially burned my man card.
(Oh, I recently learned my levels of T are atypically low and probably have been all my life. I am seeing an endocrinologist in December to see if I'm a candidate for hormone replacement. I'll try it so long as I don't become a sex pest or a Republican or violent. I may be sad if I lose my hair.)
So now I'm Enby (undefined, but absolutely not a man).
That's an example of genderqueer.
ETA I've deliberated at length at what masculinity looks like, and expressed my sentiments here -- sorry about the messy link.
If it helps comfort you, I'm an enby, phenotypically male, bald as a cue ball, and my natural testosterone is so high I'm practically a teen despite actually being three times older. I am and always have been left AF and a fierce supporter of human rights, including bodily autonomy. I had an incident earlier in life which led to my testosterone temporarily dipping by about half for a few months and nothing about my behavior or beliefs significantly changed. I did nap more but that might have been coincidental. That's about it.
I think most people like the guys you mentioned are just assholes regardless of their testosterone levels.
I was going to say something similar. Testosterone levels don't make beliefs more likely...there are plenty of Female MAGA's.
I have very high natural testosterone; I sit adjacent to the general left right politics; preferring policy that has quality evidence to back it up. Scientifically oriented most of my political ideas land squarely on the "left"; because being good to people generally leads to better outcomes for everyone.