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That's the post. I had only dated bisexual men before and it was kinda nice to know that a person that really only finds women attractive finds me attractive. Chime in if you want to share similar moments.

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[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 1 month ago (7 children)

next ur gonna say misandry is real and black people can be racist towards white people lol

shut the fuck up honestly

[–] applebusch@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago (6 children)

Wait but... misandry is real and black people can be racist towards white people. Maybe you mistyped or something idk. Anyone can be a bigot.

[–] 0x2640@lemmy.blahaj.zone -3 points 1 month ago (5 children)

misandry isnt real its a silencing tactic

reverse racism isnt real, its a silencing tactic

there is no structural, societal misandry ever-present, oppressing men

there is no structural, societal racism ever-present, oppressing white people

racism, like misogyny, is a structural and systemic hate leveraged against people, not a personal one

when men receive lower salaries than women, have lower rights than women, have their bodies policed like women, are treated like objects and property like women then we can say it is real

[–] blackris@discuss.tchncs.de 5 points 1 month ago

Downvoted because while it is correct, what you said, it is completely wrong to think that on an individual level persons cannot be misandric or racist to white people.

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