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I'm glad these people are having fun, but I always feel a bit put off when some random group's homebrew and table rulings are pitched as being typical d&d.
So adjusting the game slightly to suit what the group feels would enhance their experience makes it... not counting as the game somehow?
So my Rimworld isn't Rimworld anymore because i added some Mods?
I think this is gatekeeping, tbh.
No. These people are welcome to play however they want. They're having a good time and that's great for them.
Pitching this as "d&d is great" when the entire story hinges on multiple table specific rulings makes this both less relatable for players of d&d used to a different tone of play and can set unrealistic expectations for new players who might join a game that plays very differently.
I'm not saying they shouldn't play like this, or that this isn't d&d. It's just a very specific scenario that is quite likely to be non-representative of many games.
That's kind of my point though. It's still d&d, even with house rules. So it's perfectly fine (imho) to say d&d is great.
If it's less relatable to you because of that then... don't relate to it. I enjoy reading about other peoples fun sometimes and couldn't give two fucks about the ruleset they use. But hey, different strokes and all that.
Expectations for new players will most likely be "oh, this sounds like fun" more than "i want to do this super specific thing too and will be heartbroken if i find out it was all a big lie".
About representation i must say that most tables o played at had some house rules.