itslilith

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[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 year ago (3 children)

Depending on the monk subclass you could dump Wis and rely on the barbarian's unarmored defense

Everyone needs Con anyways, so that's not as bad

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 years ago

Then don't consume that content? The community you linked to is specifically about people posting pictures in thigh highs. There's also a lot of content I can't stand, but I've curated my media consumption so I rarely if ever need to encounter it

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 2 years ago (4 children)

trying to attract attention, feeling confident in their looks or simply cute, there are many reasons they might've posted that. Even if it was only meant for attention (which it likely wasn't, posting on a niche community on a small instance on an obscure platform. posts on unixsocks are mostly by queer people for other queer people), that'd be no different from the millions of other posts in communities like Roast Me or Gone Wild.

Why do you say guys can only like this content if they're ignorant or have a fetish? There is nothing strange about liking feminity, and for that it doesn't matter if the OP is cis or trans. This is exactly the sort of harmful stereotype I was talking about earlier. Trans people are not trying to trick anybody, but just live their lives.

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 2 years ago (6 children)

sure, but it's also a derogatory term used as an actual insult against real trans women implying they're a) not real women and b) trying to deceive men

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 years ago (8 children)

I'm not saying that Linux communities aren't full of queer people (they absolutely are), I'm saying that "trap" is used as a transphobic slur and shouldn't be used to refer to people unless they explicitly want you to

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 2 years ago (11 children)

I'm sure you mean well, but that's not a word you should refer to people with

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 years ago

But what if it's reaally fun?

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 2 years ago

Name a puzzle that can't be solved using blood magic

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 2 years ago

an hour is plenty of time to prepare some nasty surprises. but once again, this doesn't really matter. dnd doesn't work well for pvp

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 years ago (4 children)

A friend recently rolled 41 on her perception check. We were level 8 without a bard in the party. Good times.

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 years ago

To add on to that:

Lily Alexandre
Ricky Hirsch
ceicocat (only one that fits the bill so far, but I'll be watching her career with great interest)

[–] itslilith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Thanks for sharing, and glad you're where you are now <3

I fortunately never got anywhere near as far down the pipeline, but with a few more bad influences and unlucky decisions it could've definitely have happened. I was pretty lonely and depressed back in 2018 and began following some really icky (in retrospect) anti-feminist, anti-wokeness YouTubers. For me the turn away from that came first, luckily. I made some friends in an ecology class, and that set me on a quick path toward environmentalism -> socialism -> social justice, and shortly after I figured out I was queer (thought I was a bi guy at the time, ha). However, took me another three years to finally make the connection I was a girl, actually :'D

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