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[–] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I don't know if there is a specific term for it, I think people would just call it having bottom dysphoria.

[–] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 months ago

I've noticed that myself, when I first came out and started transitioning socially my voice didn't bother me and I spoke exactly like I did before. Now I'm bothered slightly by sounding masculine and I try more to speak in a way that sounds feminine, the deepness doesn't particularly bother me I just don't want to sound like a dude if that makes sense.

[–] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Congratulations, I hope you have a speedy recovery.

[–] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 6 months ago

I don't really like chocolate much. I'll eat white chocolate, but milk chocolate and especially dark chocolate is kinda gross to me.

[–] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 months ago

I don't remember that being a thing ever. I remember at one point people would talk about chocolate being amazing but I never heard it being specific to girls. Actually my family used to make chocolate deserts a lot and I ended up getting very sick of it. I'll eat white chocolate but if given the option between something that has dark or milk chocolate and something that doesn't have chocolate I'll choose the thing without chocolate.

[–] dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone 15 points 6 months ago

I think it has been reclaimed by the community, though I'm doubtful that the old man with a MAGA hat who called me a dyke is aware of that or using it in that kind of way (yes he was literally wearing a MAGA hat).

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submitted 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) by dipshit@lemmy.blahaj.zone to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

I know that it's an awful and homophobic slur but it made me feel weirdly validated to be called a slur that's usually only used on women (lesbians). I don't know, it's weird. Part of me is upset that they called me a homophobic slur but a part of me is also euphoric for being referred to, even indirectly as a woman. Does anyone else relate to this experience?

(By the way I'm a transfem lesbian.)