NotJohnSmith

I struggle to believe that. Every single one of these have an agent who's job it is to know and inform their client if a role is problematic.

Hell, I think on a personal level they'd be aware also as it has very much become her personality.

I mean it's an American thing to loudly proclaim that if you do anything other than have an indoor cat then you're an awful person (see original OP of this thread), not appreciating that America is wildly different on this position than pretty much any other country in the world

It's an American thing. Culturally there it's expected that cats are kept indoors, and that any other view is unacceptable.

Whether they are neutered is another conversation

I appreciate your anxiety is in part coming from you feeling you're different from the norm bestman wise but I've done a few and you wouldn't believe how many people in the crowd will have your back.

I would hope even transphobs put aside their silly prejudices and recognise that supporting you, the groom and wife.

Believe in yourself and smash it out of the park

I think it's none of my business how people want to live their lives, least not because it has absolutely no impact on how I live my life.

How hard is it to not see this.