I don't worry too much about that when meeting new people. The thing I'm afraid of is misgendering people I've known for a very long time. I want very much to use the correct name and pronoun but the ones I've known them by for the past decade or whatever sometimes slip past the filter.
Edit: and since these are longstanding relationships, I'm more concerned with their feelings than I would be a stranger.
I don't worry too much about that when meeting new people. The thing I'm afraid of is misgendering people I've known for a very long time. I want very much to use the correct name and pronoun but the ones I've known them by for the past decade or whatever sometimes slip past the filter.
Edit: and since these are longstanding relationships, I'm more concerned with their feelings than I would be a stranger.