No.
I will not hide.
I will not comply.
They're gonna have to come and get me, and I plan on making them work for it.
KillingAndKindess
joined 2 years ago
May they go to a place as lovely as they were brave.
When the blackout happened and looked as though this particular sub was going to go dark permanently I was so sad. Glad to see its back up, and I hope the information there is preserved in some way
Not sure if remember what matrix is, but I'm down to be friends!
While sitting and I see the position like on the toilet if you're doing this in the bathroom or whatever, while looking down visually divide what you can see of your upper leg into thirds in both the vertical and horizontal directions like a tic-tac-toe board.
If it is your right leg then we're going on the right side left leg then the left side but both of them will be in that middle outer Square of the tic-tac-toe board. 90° angle to the skin and unflex which is why you should do it in a seated position if possible.
My bad. After seeing the recent needs pop up, I've been talking with some other members about creating a space for just this type of thing, and I suppose I was tunnel visioned.
Question, I'm unable to see the previous post as removed, is that a Lemmy quirk?
Editing my comment.
We obviously need a community for things of this nature for the time being, ~~but please don't spam it here~~
Edit: and I'm talking with some others who feel the same.
If you're interested in creating / supporting such a community, DM me and I'll add you to the planning list/forum/whatever.
I can die happy now.
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What you are experiencing is totally valid and nothing is wrong with feeling any of it. Generally speaking, you, and everyone else, should be in regular therapy, where you would have the opportunity to process these thoughts and emotions. It helps me so much just to have someone that can keep me away from mental pitfalls and traps that often cause most of my emotional discomfort about a thing.
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Uhhh you already look like a girl (or woman). We are women, and so we look like women. This isnt to dismiss you, but to reframe your perspective. Personally, I don't look like the woman I want to look like, but that comes with time and will likely change to be a more awesome version than the compilation of ideas borrowed from all over. But I DO look like a woman.
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Life isn't over until it is. Its cliche, and a bit meaningless if you let it be, but its still true. If you need some comparative outlooks on life, you will always find someone more miserable, older, and in more pain than yourself. If you met that person, would you be ok telling them "Hey, you're life is over"?
No? Thats because you're not an asshole (presumably), and its not kind... so why in the ever living fuck are you being an asshole to yourself? Sheeesh! (seriously though, chin up friend. Not cause its easy to do, but because seeing something good coming to you is impossible when you're staring at the ground)
Meet up, climbing gym, running clubs, church.
Be careful with that last one. There are some that would welcome you... but do some recon before attending.
Actually, be careful with those last 3, they all sound dangerous 😁
I started my hormones almost three weeks ago as well. I wish they'd started me on 4mg like you, but I'm sure it will be adjusted at my 3 month check in.
It wonderful to read your thoughts and feel as if they are my own in such a way. Its actually very helpful, as past trauma and temporarily untreated ADHD make reflection to a similar level a real challenge for me, so thank you.
A couple of weeks prior to my HRT start date, I stumbled upon an app that I've firmly incorporated into my upwards trend of positive mental health choices, as well as specificlaly my transition. Its called Daily You (Android Repo, Available on Fdroid). Its a privacy friendly, and simple way to do a daily journal/Photo log/emotional log. I use it to take a selfie every night, and occasionally add a 1-2 sentence entry. There are more feature rich apps, but I've always found myself unable to commit to those daily for very long. I've not missed a day yet, and I know despite my mirror/pic shyness, I'll be happy to at least have them for myself.
Yeah, Hows about I not-see instead