ArmoredThirteen

If only I knew about the boneless wings indicator maybe I could have cracked my egg sooner lol

The Furryosa saga is one of the best things to happen here. Thank you for the updates ❤️

https://youtu.be/sIaIdv79Xz4

So a couple things, do you have a link where I can read up on the history of betweener labor because now I'm curious? But secondly what are you talking about? What this post or the comments implies anything to do with race? I don't understand where you're getting that from

One of my favorite campaigns I was a tempest cleric dwarf in a sea campaign. She came from a clan of dwarves that would take longboats along river coasts downstream from a mother clan's mountain mining to find pockets of washed down minerals. It was so fun and eventually she started her own seafaring clan the Sundersalt. We were based on an island but controlled a lot of trade in the area with ships modeled after Korean turtle ships

I finally figured out mine doesn't have a favorite and he rotates through multiple flavors. Variety is the spice of life and all that. I mostly have it figured out now and only have to give away about a bag a month. Took nearly $200 of food research to get here though I hope he knows how much I care

Yeah the first time I peed myself I was doing dishes trying to finish up the last few while holding it in. I didn't even have to pee painfully badly or anything it was a pretty standard amount of pushing it I used to be able to do. There wasn't really any warning or anything it just sorta happened and I wasn't even sure that's what was going on until I checked. I think I've almost dialed in what my holding it limit feels like but I still mess up on occasion

Rip, my bad 😭

Just made a post about some of my experiences here: https://lemmy.zip/post/39222527

I will likely make another post somewhere else that includes photos for people but I don't know when that will be

Here's one of my previous voids being a dork

Oh, it's just a wild way to spell pwned

The challenge is for real. What got me through the worst of it early on was really trying to focus on what I had power to change and sweeping what I couldn't change under the rug to deal with it later. Even if it was stuff that seemed very minor at the time it just helped me build some kind of foundation underneath myself knowing that I had any control in my life. Things like "I'm going to find a new type of food for my cat to see if I can get him to puke less, and maybe I can or maybe I can't that's okay" or "I'm going to buy new socks because my ex spouse used to gift me socks and now I need to get into the habit of doing that myself" (I have not successfully pulled this one off yet a year later and all my socks have holes in them but I tried and it gave me a sense of control working towards it which is what I needed more than I needed the socks). These things will add up and I believe you'll be able to learn to take care of yourself how you need. Yeah it's exhausting, I'm still exhausted, I cry almost every day, but working towards things is keeping me going even if I'm doing so very slowly on a lot of fronts